Guardrails and Grace for the Journey

Excerpt: Guardrails and Grace for the Journey - Trauma Session 1

Course: Moving Through Trauma

Speakers: Cathy Loerzel, Benji Horning

Navigating Your Story: A Gentle Approach to Healing Trauma

You’ve taken a significant step by engaging with this material, recognizing its importance for your life. We’re here to guide you in connecting your past experiences with your present challenges. We deeply appreciate you joining us on this journey.

The Courage to Begin Your Healing

It takes immense bravery to confront past hurts. Many understandably avoid this work due to the emotional toll and underlying fears. Choosing to lean into your own healing is a powerful act, crucial not only for your well-being but also for future generations.

Prioritizing Kindness in Your Journey

As you explore this material, remember to approach yourself with kindness, gentleness, and compassion. This is not a process that should be rushed or forced. Pay attention to your body’s signals. Overwhelm or uncontrollable anxiety indicates a need to pause and step back.

Understanding Your Emotional Limits

Think of this like stretching. You want to gently test your limits, but it’s essential to recognize when you’ve reached your edge to avoid causing further distress. Healing comes through a gentle process of understanding and connecting the pieces of your story.

Recognizing Signs of Overwhelm

Be aware of hypoarousal, which can manifest as feeling disconnected, foggy-headed, or dissociated. This may signal that it’s not the right time to engage or that you need to employ self-soothing techniques to return to the present. If needed, take a break until you feel ready to return with a kinder approach.

Hyperarousal, characterized by panic or high anxiety, is also a sign to step back. This work can be agitating, so knowing your personal boundaries is crucial to ensure your safety and well-being.

The Importance of Gentle and Steady Progress

The key is to remain within your window of tolerance, where you feel challenged but not overwhelmed. There’s no benefit in pushing yourself too hard. True healing emerges from a place of kindness and gentle exploration, allowing your body and mind to be present and receptive.

Extending Grace and Compassion

Often, our responses to trauma can lead to self-criticism. We encourage you to extend grace to yourself – for the hardships you’ve faced and for the coping mechanisms you’ve developed. Extend grace to how you perceive others, God, and yourself. Welcoming grace into your healing process can shift your perspective and reveal a new path forward.

Conclusion: Embracing a Compassionate Path to Healing

We encourage you to treat yourself with deep compassion. The difficulties you’ve experienced and your subsequent responses are often a result of the brokenness of the world around us. Allow yourself to receive the healing and compassion that is freely offered.

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Session 1

Welcome to the Moving Through Trauma Course

Video: Welcome

Video: Guardrails & Grace for the Journey

Video: For Those of You Who

Topics: Hypoarousal; Hyperarousal; Grace

Session 2

Video: Grounding Exercise - From a Place of Calm

Video: Unpacking Trauma

Video: Our Trauma Threshold

Topics: Embedded Trauma/Traumatic Event; Traumatic Threshold

Session 3

Video: Grounding Exercise - Breath and Bilateral Stimulation

Video: How Trauma Functions in our Emotions, Brain, and Body

Video: Our Three Primary Responses to Trauma

Topics: Neuroscience Terms; Fragmentation/Dissociation/Isolation

Session 4

Video: Grounding Exercise - Lowering Stress in the Nervous System

Video: How Family & Collective Systems Impact How We Experience Trauma

Video: Trauma’s Connection to our Health and Wellbeing

Topics: Attunement; Containment; Rupture & Repair; ACE Study (Third Video)

Session 5

Video: Grounding Exercise - Breathing in Hope

Video: How We Heal

Topics: Healing: Reconstruction; Release; Acceptance

Session 6

Video: Grounding Exercise - Grounded in the Present

Video: Relationship with God

Topics: Relationship with God; Prayer Practices

Session 7

Video: Relationship with Self

Topics: Cold Water Treatment; Developing Story Awareness

Session 8

Video: Grounding Exercise - From a Place of Calm

Video: Relationship with Others

Video: Redeeming Trauma

Topics: Building Support; Listening Triad

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