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Breath and Bilateral Stimulation

April 8, 2025

By Austin Cavaliere

Breath and Bilateral Stimulation

Excerpt: Grounding Exercise - Breath and Bilateral Stimulation - Trauma Session 3

Course: Moving Through Trauma

Speakers: Cathy Loerzel

Finding Your Ground: A Simple Exercise for Engaging with Difficult Emotions

Engaging with the topic of trauma can understandably bring up difficult feelings. Your body’s natural response might be to resist these emotions as a form of self-protection. However, healing doesn’t require being overwhelmed. This exercise can help you gently connect with your body and create a sense of safety as you navigate this material.

Connecting with Your Body: A Grounding Exercise

Connect with the Ground: Place both feet flat on the floor. Take a moment to feel the sensation of the ground beneath you. Pay attention to your toes and the soles of your feet.

Notice Your Breath: Bring your awareness to your breath. Simply observe the rhythm of your inhales and exhales. Consciously take a slow breath in… and then a slow breath out… Repeat this a few times. Focusing on your breath can help calm your body.

Find a Safe Position: If you don’t feel safe in your current environment, try to find a more comfortable and secure position. If needed, you can also pause this material to tend to your immediate sense of safety.

Gentle Touch: Place your hands on your thighs, noticing the feeling of your body. Then, cross your hands over your shoulders, giving yourself a gentle hug.

Bilateral Tapping: Begin to gently tap your hands on your shoulders, alternating from one side to the other. This rhythmic movement, known as bilateral stimulation, can help regulate your nervous system.

Utilizing Simple Tools for Grounding

Use these simple tools whenever you need them: conscious breath, gentle tapping, mindful movement, and finding a safe space. Remember, engaging with the stories you’re exploring requires gentleness and kindness. The experiences you’re addressing may have been harsh, but your journey toward healing doesn’t need to be. Approach yourself with the same compassion you would offer someone you deeply care about. I truly hope this exercise is helpful as you continue on your path.

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Session 1

Welcome to the Moving Through Trauma Course

Video: Welcome

Video: Guardrails & Grace for the Journey

Video: For Those of You Who

Topics: Hypoarousal; Hyperarousal; Grace

Session 2

Video: Grounding Exercise - From a Place of Calm

Video: Unpacking Trauma

Video: Our Trauma Threshold

Topics: Embedded Trauma/Traumatic Event; Traumatic Threshold

Session 3

Video: Grounding Exercise - Breath and Bilateral Stimulation

Video: How Trauma Functions in our Emotions, Brain, and Body

Video: Our Three Primary Responses to Trauma

Topics: Neuroscience Terms; Fragmentation/Dissociation/Isolation

Session 4

Video: Grounding Exercise - Lowering Stress in the Nervous System

Video: How Family & Collective Systems Impact How We Experience Trauma

Video: Trauma’s Connection to our Health and Wellbeing

Topics: Attunement; Containment; Rupture & Repair; ACE Study (Third Video)

Session 5

Video: Grounding Exercise - Breathing in Hope

Video: How We Heal

Topics: Healing: Reconstruction; Release; Acceptance

Session 6

Video: Grounding Exercise - Grounded in the Present

Video: Relationship with God

Topics: Relationship with God; Prayer Practices

Session 7

Video: Relationship with Self

Topics: Cold Water Treatment; Developing Story Awareness

Session 8

Video: Grounding Exercise - From a Place of Calm

Video: Relationship with Others

Video: Redeeming Trauma

Topics: Building Support; Listening Triad

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